BlueWolf,
It could be your settings. There are options for sound that you can set for voice, music, etc and even a total overall volume setting, I use this feature, to lower my music setting, so i can hear footsteps sound effects etc….better. I just use the regular speakers from my TV and I hear footsteps when somebody is behind you very easily (unless they have the perk that makes you quiet….can’t remember its name off the top of my head at moment) I can do some research on the best one, but at the moment I don’t have a recommendation for headsets since I don’t use them, plus how would you use your bluetooth to communicate with your peeps?